Hi, I'm divorcing my H of 20 years. He's been a very heavy drinker for years and I have hung on until kids got older.
He's not happy with the 'unreasonable behaviour' for the grounds of the divorce and we haven't communicated properly for months now.
It's like he's trying to mentally push me out the home completely, I mean I don't want to be here 100% of the time and I spend the night at a friends house.
To anyone else that may have been through a similar thing what should I do?
I want the divorce to go through as quickly as possible so I can finally be free. I have a feeling my son will stay with him as he doesn't understand, I think that's because he doesn't know anything different as he has grown up with H drinking all the time.
Any help/advice would be gratefully received. 