STBX has sacked his legal team, I suspect they over promised based on his allegations, but in reality they had very little chance in getting his demands. He’s now a litigant in person (with his solicitors unofficially in the background, I suspect) which has given him leniency from the judge at the last hearing, even though he’s refusing to disclose, playing silly games, and being a cuntbadger of the highest order.
So my barrister suggests, that I also go to trial as a LIP to even out the playing field as it were. Has anyone self represented at trial? And was it as hideous as it sounds? I assume you both have to question each other? I’ve got huge anxiety. And at the last two day trial, I just about managed to hold it together. The thought of having to it again on my own is already filling me with dread.