Ex thinks he can collect at tea time and drop back straight after breakfast and this counts as overnight

[Onlymeeeeee]

Just that really, i can't find any details or recommendations on how long an overnight stay should be. The mediator said that it means 24 hours responsibility, so pick up after tea, drop back just before tea next day? Has anyone got a "proper" definition of this please?

And if the only time you see your children, they're actually asleep for 9.5 of the 14 hours, i can't quite get my head round it?

Yet oddly in reverse when the contact is every other weekend and a night during the week those hours are magically transformed into being completely suitable an arrangement when it isn't much time at all as others say. No right answers