Divorced - happy together as housemates

[Lovelyivy]

I divorced my ex husband few months ago. We got pregnant shortly after we met and we decided to stick together and get married. Few months later we hated each other-no affection so we decided to end it But keep living together because of finances. We have our own room each :) we both go on dates...and we absolutely like each other now...we sit watch tv together laughing ...talking about the bad dates we've been on... sometimes it makes me wonder why we couldn't make it work as a couple. There was no affection and we hated each other and didn't want to spend any time together - a lot of build up resentment. Sometimes I wonder if we ever end up together anyways...but we enjoy being friends and no drama or expectations...I'm still attracted to him but I don't mind if we go separate ways in future ... I love having what we have now but keep wondering how is it gonna be in the future ?! Can we make it as a best buddies long term?! What do you guys think?

Glad you guys are making it work as friends but what happens if either of you find anyone else? How would you feel?
Maybe having him there is stopping you guys from moving on properly. It would be great if you could remain good friends.

It it works don’t change it! I’m glad things are good for you and your exp. A nice happy story in a world of grumpy nasty exes and bitter experiences

Am glad you get on because it will work out easy when you separate and Co parent. It’s good that you’re still friends but it sounds like you’ve still got feelings for him?? If you’re both dating others and both have feelings for each other maybe you could talk about having an open marriage?