I'M DIVORCED!!!!!!!
I just really needed to share it and the absolute joy!!
After years of trying to get away from him and our awful destructive marriage that was drowning in his lies from the start, I am now FREE!
Years of Court, his lies, his financial abuse, using the children, Courts and anything else he could against me, it is over.
I have been at breaking point so, so many times. Absolutely desperate with fear for our future. Fear that his lies were being believed and fear at losing our home (that I bought after years of hard work but by way of a marriage certificate he automatically became entitled to a share of).
It's over. The relief is immense.
I'm thinking already as my future looks so much brighter with my DCs that divorce is a bit like childbirth, the pain fades from your memory like you almost can't believe or process the sheer agony you went through.
Anyway, sorry to ramble, I had to share with someone, at times I never thought this day would come.
Stay strong everyone, when you reach the end of the tunnel the sense of relief is amazing. Keep following the light!