Over 10 years ago I divorced and bought out my ex husband on our family home. Amicable split but he ran up a lot of debt after we separated which I paid off as the buy out. We then had a 92/8% split of home in my favour with judge ordering his 8% share remain in our home until youngest child finished uni - she is still in secondary ed so we would have had another 4 years or so, or I married or cohabited for a year or more. I met a new partner who moved in with me in 2014. Ex husband had never been great supporting our children since we divorced with absolute bare minimum in maintenance and no help at all with extras like school equipment, holidays, driving lessons, car... Long story short, my ex husband called in his 8% after my new partner had been living with me more than one year. I had discussed with my partner but he did not want to buy in to the house and told me it was between me and my ex husband only and nothing to do with him. Even his mother told me it was my house and her son should not buy in. I owed my ex husband about £70k but could not raise that amount by myself. Reached agreement with ex husband that I would pay him £46k but that he would forgo payment of any further maintenance for our youngest child through secondary ed and uni (4 more years). My partner came on to the mortgage so we could pay off my ex husband but he refused to contribute any of his own money and told me all of the capital, including the new bit, was all mine to pay off. He would contribute 50% of the mortgage interest only each month. However, partner and I split before Xmas following a series of disagreements including over money and the house - as I always ended up paying the majority of stuff. So I have been left with the new £46k mortgage to pay by myself... Then I get an email from former partner ordering me to buy him a new tv, surround sound system, as I have the tv he bought for us all last year, and he wants x, y and z out of the home (a book, a cap, hair clippers we used on the dog....) He has turned up at my door quite angry wanting this 'stuff'. I have ended up blocking his phone number, email and refuse to open the door to him. I can't bear to see or talk to him. He has been a bully and so has his mother. She has now got him a flat as he had not enough money of his own to put a deposit on one. I do not know how to deal with ex partner now. I'm now servicing an extra £46k mortgage because of him and receiving no further maintenance for my DD with 4 years of education still to go. If former partner makes any more demands on me, what should I do? I am almost living in fear of him knocking at my door demanding something or being threatening.