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Been left in the dark

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lifeandhappiness123 · 21/12/2017 17:40

This is pretty hard for me., not sure were to start, my heart actually aches. 12 weeks ago I messaged my partner asking hows things, how was work?, with a reply of 'hi babe, things are alright, just tired (he'd been on nights), just fed up and sick of been skint.' I replied comforting him as I've always been there for him and his two children and tried my absolute best, I explained things will get there, and that I'm always here for him know matter what. After that I've had no contact from him what so ever for around 12 weeks now. To begin with I messaged asking if everu thing was ok, then would ask again how was work, but would still be ignored. Me thinking what on earth has happened, wracking my brain torturing myself, but nothing had happened. It approached our 2 year anniversary on the 3rd of October, and messaged him again after days of messaging him saying I hope your ok, I'm here if you need me, but on the 3rd of October I messaged saying happy 2nd year anniversary., and yet again absolutely nothing. I know he's ok as he's been seen, and I also saw him at a glance at the end of October neat were I live at a B&Q store, my heart dropped. But still till this day, not a thing from him. I put everything I possibly could into our relationship and now I feel broken. What did I ever do to him for him to hurt me like this. Not even a letter or an email to explain what the hell has happened. I just can't seem to move on.

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RhinoGirl · 21/12/2017 17:41

Was there a reason for the seperation? How were things left the last time you physically saw each other?

Abandoned65 · 22/12/2017 02:30

I found out that my ex was in a relationship when the heartbroken hubby called me a week ago. It was the lies that hurt first, then the realization that there was no going back to our marriage and the terror of being alone after 30 years together.

BackInTheRoom · 22/12/2017 19:21

@Abandoned65 You're not alone. I'm standing alongside you. Reach out your hand....I understand the utter devastation. 💐

lifeandhappiness123 · 23/12/2017 08:59

Hi there

There was no reason at all, he's literally not been in touch from that last message he sent. We were fine really, this is what u do not get.

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