Hi,
I've been with my husband for 10years, we have an 8year old together and I have a 15year old from a previous relationship. My husband has a 14 year old and a 13 year old with his ex.
When my husband and his ex divorced a child maintenance order was agreed. A few years ago my husband took a substantial drop in income. As a result he decreased his child maintenance, paying a few hundred ££s over what the online child maintenance calculator suggests.
Over the last few years his income has now risen BUT according to the maintenance calculator he is still paying more than he is obligated to since we now have two more children in our household.
His ex has now broken up with her new fiancé and is demanding that my husband back date all the money from the original court order, she is also threatening to go after his pension which she didn't get in the final settlement. Does anyone know if she can legal do this? Also, would I have to declare my income?
Also, just to add, after the original settlement my husband also gave her a considerable amount of money in a lump sum, would this be taken into consideration?
Thanks