Sorry to sound selfish in advance all! I fell pregnant after only three months with my partner, he’s 7 years younger than me and my baby wasn’t planned. (I am 32) That said, she’s been the best thing that has ever ever happened to me. She’s 9 months old now.The thing is, I’m not sure how I feel about her dad. He’s kind to me, and great with her. For me though, I never have the urge to hug / kiss or be affectionate. I snap at him and get cross at him. I feel like I’m holding him back from finding someone who perhaps would be better suited- especially when he’s so young. Selfishly the thought of giving her up at weekends if we split makes me feel awful. Do you think it’s just a bad phase? Or am I prolonging it. Any advice appreciated.