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Financial rights

34 replies

Bp17 · 07/11/2017 19:47

Hi been together over 39 years lived in his family home with 6 kids. Marriage now over and I've moved out at his request waiting for council to help. I work full time and 3 of the kids with me. What are my rights to support for the children and I paid into the house for over 30 years. Thanks

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worridmum · 15/11/2017 10:46

Just a warning to people saying the OP is entitled to half the house which doesn't belong to ether party is wrong.

Aka DH parents bought a second house and kept it in their name (this is the important bit parents own it) and we live there does not mean the partner has rights to 50% of the house just like if you were renting you would not get 50 from the landlord

Bp17 · 24/11/2017 18:13

Hi guys any advice as to where I get a solicitor so I can get things sorted as he is refusing to pay anything to me and kids and then saying he wants the kids at weekends which means I don't see them as we work and school all week. Thanks

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cheesypastatonight · 24/11/2017 22:18

Type the name of your town and solicitor into Google.

MrsBertBibby · 25/11/2017 08:59

For maintenance for the kids you need to contact the Child Maintenance Service.

A solicitor can only help with spousal maintenance on top. Get on the phone to CMS and start a claim immediately. I am guessing you have more kids with him, how many are with him, and what ages? How much do you each earn? Who gets child benefit, and for which kids?

For a solicitor, try here

www.resolution.org.uk/landing-two-cols.asp?page_id=21

Bp17 · 25/11/2017 11:05

Hi thank you yeah we have 6 together the youngest are all under 15 and I am working full time but now have a large rent to pay. I never got anything apart from clothes from the house and had to borrow to furnish the flat. Just all a mess and now I'm struggling and he gets to take them movies and take seats at weekends. Will get onto CMS on Monday thanks

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Bp17 · 05/12/2017 10:26

Hi all just a question. Ex has offered me 100 a week but wants me to sign a document saying I won't ask for anymore down the line. Is this reasonable or am I being stitched up. Thanks

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Afterthestorm · 05/12/2017 17:08

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RockinRobinTweets · 05/12/2017 17:13

You’re probably being stitched up.

After living in the house for that length of time you’ll have some rights. You need to see a solicitor. You get a free consultation.

Bp17 · 08/12/2017 09:36

Thank you

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