How soon?

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Are there any benefits for divorcing sooner or waiting a bit?

My STBXH left a couple of months ago. We tried couples counselling but it didn't work out. Lots of lies came to the surface and it turns out he's been spending a lot of time on escort sites. I can't trust him anymore. I'm pregnant and feel like I'd like to get everything sorted before the baby arrives. We need a bigger house and I'm not sure if I will have the money to fund one.

I think he's a bit in denial and expects that I will have him back eventually.

Am I moving too quickly since he only left a few months ago? Are there pros/cons to waiting or waiting till after the baby arrives?

I generally advise against delay. I suggest you go see a solicitor now, talk the whole thing through, and then you can decide . It's unlikely you will get everything sorted before the birth though unless your finances are very simple.

Good luck.

Wrap it up ASAP.
Then when the baby arrives you can focus on being a dm and not the ex. .