Such a long story but my EXH hasn't worked for the last few years, hasn't paid maintenance for over 3 years but Swans about in his designer gear and new car. I work full time and provide everything for the girls.
In the last year or so he has had a couple of outbursts with our DD's that have led to them not wanting to stay over at his house.
I get the long messages about how he needs to re-empower himself and how this whole situation is my fault and I'm so weak etc etc.
He is now not seeing the girls on our agreed days which should be every other weekend and one day in the week but sending random messages to my eldest as and when he feels like it organising to see them.
Today he has organised to see them as he is off on holiday for a week. When I text him to say please can you organise arrangements with the children through me, he answered no and he is very close to not seeing them until they are old enough to make arrangements themselves and to not have to seek permission from me!
Any advice on dealing with this narcissist?