Four years ago my husband had an affair 6 months after finding some text messages on my phone from another man. Which meant nothing!! We tried to be together for the sake of my daughter who is 11 now but I finally decided a month ago to end things between us as I couldn't forget what he did. We've agreed that we've grown apart and that it would be better for us to have our own lives. The problem is my daughter. She hasn't said much since we told her he's moving out. Which is a flat just around the corner on the next road so he will still be very nearby and I haven't set any restrictions either, but this morning she has revealed anxiety and she didn't want to go to school or even leave the house. I've ended up smoking again after 14 years and have just had half an bottle of wine!! It's 8.45am!!! I'm scared that a. I'm losing control and b. That my daughter is going to end up severely depressed. Do I go back to my husband and try to work it all out or do I stand my ground and sort myself out?? I really don't know what to do. I feel trapped. Please help me.