It's been ten days or So since my husband informed me he didn't want to continue our marriage and moved into the spare room. We had just finished renovating a house which was to be our forever home and accumulated a bit of debt in doing so. He was pushing to add this to our mortgage and I went along with it. Until today when I suddenly thought no I don't think this is a good idea and called the mortgage company and put it all on hold. I then can't contacted my husband to say we need to talk about this as our circumstances have changed. He called me about twenty times in the space of thirty minutes and when I did pick up a call he was virtually bullying me into taking this loan on. It's total nonsense to me to do this if he wants to split. Why would I convert unsecured debt into secured debt. I'm on my way home now and I'm worried about what I might be walking into. He was so nasty on the phone. Really awful. Any advice?