Upsets me when he leaves

[alittlepieceofme]

My ex has just been to visit our ds, he left 2 weeks ago and it upset me so much when he left. It feels so right him being here with us.

Why did he become your ex?

He said he didn't love me anymore, literally the week before we had been talking about when we were going to get married, even another baby! Our ds is only 9 months old

Hey, I had to post... That's what my ex did, we were planning a wedding and talking about having our second. How are you feeling now?

I have to say everyone told me the pain wouldn't last and I couldn't see it or thought it would take years, and I'm sure I'm not out of the woods yet but I've had such a good weekend where I've been truly happy and I'm only two months in. Honestly today has been like Christmas.

When my ex first picked up my son for his daddy day I broke my heart, missed him just wanted to reach out and hug him, it was the worst pain. I have been right there and I just wanted to say that, it's horrible.

But I'm here today just a few more weeks in and I'm happy, I'm even listening to some new music (have listened to nothing for months because everything made me sad!)

You will get there I promise! Be strong! This person is clearly not worth your pain, too not have any regrets or even a bit of a wobble, that is a level of coldness that isn't worth your regret!!! Xxx

Oh and I've stopped being there to drop off my son now, as seeing him was preventing me getting better... Is there anyone who can be there instead of you? Like a family member? X

Thanks for replying, I know I have to give it time but like you said I can't see it happening at the moment! Your post has definitely given me hope! I have been thinking about someone else doing the handover so I don't have to see him! Good advice!