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Divorce/separation

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Selling house

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WickedGirl · 21/08/2017 14:59

My husband doesn't want a divorce

He won't send his financial information back to my solicitor. Will this affect the divorce and consent order?

We have put the marital home on the market......what happens if he decides not to sign the contract if we get an acceptable offer in? How do I force the sale?

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DelphiniumBlue · 21/08/2017 15:24

There are steps you can take to force a sale, but they are expensive and drawn out.
Is he just being difficult or is that he hasn't come to terms with the fact that the marriage is over? Is there reason he's not sending back the info, or is it that he hadn't got all the info at his fingertips?
Mediation might work, assuming there is no violence.
But theres no point in putting the house on the market until he's agreed to a sale at this point in time - no buyer is going to wait while you sort out your matrimonial issues. If you can get to the bottom of this with STBEx, it would work to everyone's advantage.
And don't finalise the divorce until the financials are sorted, especially if there assets such as pensions to consider.

WickedGirl · 23/08/2017 13:22

He doesn't want to accept the marriage is over

He won't fill in the financial stuff as he hopes it will slow the divorce down

The atmosphere at home is toxic. He won't move out and argues over me not cooking for him despite being separated for over two years

It's hell

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inmyshoos · 23/08/2017 22:29

Wicked i totally feel your pain. I was in similar situation. He refused to believe it was over. Refused to move out. Refused to rent. Eventually I took over mortgage on marital home and he bought somewhere else but I've had to hold his hand the whole time. I've even had to rope my at her in to do building works at his new place. He is used to everyone else (Me and my family) doing everything.
Is the mortgage in both names? Have you had legal advice?

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