Help! He moved out a week ago, now he's planning to move back

[Kissesgingers]

After 10 months of unreasonable behavior, my husband suggested he moved out. It was a relief not to have him sulking about the place, although he continues to be unreasonable regarding money and seeing the children. Today he has been messaging me abuse all day but has decided he will move back in on Tuesday and "take control" "have prompt access to his post" "cut his outgoings" "think about the future" and (finally) "see his children whenever he wants". I am horrified and devastated. It has been so calm and peaceful since he left, the children (preteen and teen) have got used to it. My solicitor told me I can't stop him coming in/back but at the time he hadn't threatened it. He claims he's "changed" and it won't be an issue. I panicked earlier and told him I'd move out with the children if he moved back in. Has anyone got a better suggestion?

Stoopid autocorrect, too.

My ex only moved out on the date on the divorce papers. It had to be included as he wouldn't go. I paid for absolutely everything and it was my house so he had to go.

You cannot keep him out he would be perfectly acceptable to change the licks again to gain access. The only way to permanently remove him is a court order and they only give these out in proveable cases not simply because the mother doesnt want him there. They need to provable legitimate reasons that have evidence backing them up.

Sorry to jump on this thread but what if the house isn't in his name? I'm in similar situation but the house is in my name and I pay the mortgage because he is not working. Can I keep him out?