We were supposed to have 8th wedding anniversary coming Monday. But one month ago my husband told he wanted out. He could't explain why, all he could say I was never able to understand him. I had no idea he was that unhappy, he never complained before and I thought all was ok. The way he broke the news was not the best - he got drunk, spend our savings in stip club and next morning announced that he wanted to separate.
The worst thing is that he picked the moment when we are extending our residence permits (we are both from outside of the UK) and I totally depend on his collaboration to be able to stay in the country.
Money situation is not great either - I was not ready for the separation and all the savings are gone. Our apartment and car are in his name (because of my immigration status it was much easier to do it this way).
Since our residence application is still being considered we can't divorce straight away and need to live in the same apartment which is very hard. Today I have also found out that he started an affair with his ex colleague. We all used to go out together and this really hurts.
I am really lost and confused. We have a separation agreement signed but since I depend on him in many ways I am really concerned he will try to re-negotiate it. The situation is going down the hill and I don't know what to do. When we talk he is full of anger and resentment (why?), I really try to stay civil but not sure how long it could last this way.
I do work but my salary is two times lower than his and if he doesn't respect our agreement I will really struggle when we separate for good.
All I want right now to divorce with decency but I am full of anxiety and don't know what will come to his mind.
Sorry, have no one else to talk to right now and will appreciate any support.
Thank you.