Gosh if I had thought for a minute it would be this difficult I might have thought harder about fighting for it but here we are no going back 4 dc's going through divorce. The children are struggling I am hoping that it's mostly the girls aged 11 and 14 I hope to blame hormones more than stress. I really don't want to over compensate on boundaries just because I feel guilty yet I find myself doing it.what can I do to bring some kind of normality to this mess xx I was such a moralistic parent etc but must admit the way of the world is making me weaker xx any advice from those out the other side