How does anyone cope with keeping their kids healthy when they are constantly spoiled at dad's house!! I spend most of my time looking after my 3 kids. I try and keep them eating healthy and going to bed at a decent time. I do all their homework with them and get them to millions of clubs! Then they are so excited to go to their dads as they get to watch things I won't let them watch, eat and drink rubbish and stay up late. I am so fed up of feeling under appreciated but refuse to fight fire with fire and do the same. I feel like the kids just always want to be with him (unsurprisingly when they get so spoiled) I just don't know how to deal with it!!!