Been having problems with dh for the last 6 months have posted on here in relationships and the majority concluded dh has had an emotional affair. I am struggling to move on even though it wasn't even sexting it has caused trust issues in the marriage. He just can't seem to accept how I feel and what damage it has done. I really don't want to end my marriage over this but have hit a brick wall with him trying to move on or accept responsibility. I was wondering if a solicitor would sent out sort of a warning or intention to divorce letter. I suppose this is my last attempt to resolve things I have started anti depressants and on the waiting list for counselling so I am doing my bit he refuses couples counselling and as far as he is concerned the matter is over he did nothing wrong and they are no longer in contact- she stopped contact and he is still very secretive with his phone which doesn't help. I have threatened divorce so many times it no longer phases him so not sure what else I can do other than actually divorce him