Hi, im just quite upset and worried, i recently found out my husband fitted a recording device in my house so he could listen to all conversations and also had a recording app installed on my phone so all calls would be sent to him so he could listen private conversations.
I found out what my husband did while i was in labour giving birth to our son, as my husband was threatening to deal with me later. (He heard me bitching about my inlaws and is acting like i have commited a major crime) he left me in labour while he attended a wedding so i was very frustrated and in pain and vented to my sister, he herd all this as he had recording devices in my house.
Social services & police got involved and told me i was not allowed to remain with my husband as he was very controlling and maniplutive and they didnt feel me or the baby would be safe. He controlled every element of my life who i could and couldnt see, finances, what i wore etc
Now he has filed for divorce instead of getting treatment for his trust and childhood issues, he is making the divorce process very difficult, he is trying to get me to pay his legal fees, he wants 50/50 residency for our son even tho he has no relationship with our son, and i dont trust he will be safe if ever left with my husband, he is very calculating and controlling and has already threatened to take my son abroad where i cant find him.
Im not sure what to do, i dont want to lose my baby, its hard ever trusting any1 i have become so suspicious always assuming my calls are being recorded he really knocked my confidence what kind of help is out there for people in my situation? ....