I'm ready to move on.... Kind of.

[Readyornot1234]

Name changed for this. Relationship started breaking down a few months ago. We live together but not in a relationship anymore. Sleep in seperate rooms, trying to be civil etc. I'm hurting. I know we can never fix things, there's too much negativity and we can't even pin point where it stems from, I wouldn't even want us to get back together now. I thought I'd spend my life with this man, I'm heartbroken. Anyway, I just feel like I need to get over it. I need to meet a guy, I don't even want to be in a relationship or sleep with someone, maybe just text or hang out with a guy so I can get over this failed relationship. How do I do it?

[jeaux90]

I think you should ask for this to be moved to relationships section. More traffic.

Fwiw I think you need to recover from the situation you are in. Get your own place and get out with friends before you start thinking about male company again. Counselling is good if you need to work out a few things.

I took a four year break after leaving my ex. Best thing I ever did.

Xx

[Blobby10]

Best bit of advice I received was "take 6 months to reassess after a split and find yourself again before dating" . Its taken me 18 months in the end and I had my first date last weekend but I'm so glad I didn't rush into something with the first guy who appeared to like me.