I left my controlling partner with the help of DV charity . At the time I was happy to leave everything behind me . As I am gaining strength and s bit more clarity I am putting my finances in order .
He owns the house and I gave him 4K towards the deposit three years ago . I was not in a position to be put on the mortgage . He was the higher earner however I gave him half to mortgage and bills each month . We are not married and do not have any children together just to previous partners . Nothing was put in writing .
I am not bothered about any equity in the house but as I am struggling starting again I can't help but feel I should be given back the deposit if anything and feel so frustrated that the monthly money I paid Is just dead .
Has anyone been in this situation or can offer advice I would be most grateful . I have been looking at various websites but it's all a bit mixed really