STBXH moving tomorrow

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Hey all - just wanted to vent really. My husband has been staying with a relative for the past three months and is moving into his own house tomorrow. It's another thing that has made this all seem very real. The split was my decision. He's been coming by everyday to see our son but now that he's got his own place, I'll barely see him. Mixed feelings even though I'm 100% happier on my own.

Hi. It's hard. No matter who called it. No getting round the fact that all this stuff takes time to get used to. You may even find it easier if you see him less?
Take care. It's happened for a (many) reasons, so try to remember this.

My xh moved out mid-july, again, pretty much my decision. I still had mixed feelings about it as we had been married 22 years. I am most definitely happier now on my own with the children. My biggest whinge is that he hasn't been round very often to see them, despite posting on Facebook how much he'll miss them . I don't mind as tbh I'd rather not see him! Not exactly forthcoming with the maintenance either. I'm trying to be civil about it but not leaving it too long!