Long story but will try to shorten it.
I separated from cheating H 8 weeks ago, without question he left and I remained in the house we jointly own. We've only owned the house since March this year. We have a DS and a baby on the way.
Initially we said we'd pay 50/50 on mortgage repayments, I talked about child maintenance and he said he'd pay half the mortgage instead.
Now, in the back of my mind I felt/knew this wasn't correct but being A.a walkover and B. Upset and in shock from discovering his affair, I didn't say anything.
The weeks have gone by, he started renting a house nearby and I found out a few days ago him and OW are together. Fed up of his lies I msged him saying that I want child maintenance paid direct to me and after that's paid he can contribute to mortgage if he wants to remain part owner.
As you can imagine, he was not impressed! He even suggested I move out and he moves in and has DS!!!
He now wants to go through mediation, fine by me, I know I won't leave the house.
But am I right?
He's also annoyed because his dad put down the deposit, there is nothing in writing confirming that but I am not the kind of person to forget that kindness. I've told him I'll happily sign an agreement to pay that money back if/when I sell the house.