About 9 months ago I set up mediation for STBXH and myself, took weeks to get him an agreed appointment then the day before he said he wasn't prepared to attend. Didn't realise then that I could have got a form signed to say he refused. Roll forwards to now and I am trying again but he's saying he's unable to attend until December. What happens if I now refuse to wait that long? It's been nearly 3 years and I am desperate for some of the equity from our house that he's happily living in. Will it look bad on me if I refuse now? I'm convinced he won't turn up....again.