First let me explain my story...
Back in April my husband was arrested for possessing indecent images of children. Fast forward to now and he is still yet to be charged despite the fact that some 600+ images and videos have been found on his PC. During this time he has had to leave the family home and I'd only allowed supervised contact with our 1 and 2 year old.
I've also had a lot of thinking time since then. I've found photos and Internet conversations with other women (work colleagues/women from his past etc) this tipped me over the edge. I finally understood what people mean when they said they had fallen out of love with someone. The thought of starting a new life with our sons and even possibly meeting someone new excited me rather than frightened me and last week I finnaly told him our marriage was over. After some emotional messages from him he has accepted that I wasn't happy with our life. He did nothing to help me, never wanted to spend time as a family and was forever more interested in his computer. I guess my reason for writing is that although I know our marriage is over I keep randomly breaking down-something will trigger a memory or ill suddenly get a crisis of confidence. When does this go away? What is my next step? I've hopefully found a new place to live which is a good positive step! Any advice greatly appreciated x