Need some advice again please.
H and me are separating. We have a house we've lived in for 3 years with three young kids (under 6).
Oldest is in yr one, one in nursery, other at home.
Anyway, when we married we moved to London for h's work. I've never really had any friends or family here.
H is wanting me to stay in the house and he moves out somewhere else in London. His argument is about the kids and that this is their house and their inheritance.
I've never been very happy living in London, but I know I've got to do what is best for them.
I know if I move away (aprox 3 hours) I'd be supported by family and we'd come every other weekend.
I am not on the mortgage or deeds to the house either so no say in when it's sold?
H works pretty much every hour God sends so his life revolves around it and I feel we're being made to stay for convenience.
He rarely does anything with the kids and usually sits working all weekend. In the week, they are always in bed before he comes home.
I don't want this to go sour, I just want to try and do it amicably but am I asking too much?