fed up want a separation or divorce

[lilli30101968]

I have been married for 17years hubby start changing when I had my second child who is 11 now . He will go out all the time without me not knowing where he is, coming home late and it will be on and off over the years kids were small did not want to leave . Me being around suit her I am not happy I go to work take care of house , kids and contribute financially. I am getting fed up of talking to him he will change a few weeks and start again. I used to fight with him but now I don't talk just ignore him and its killing me inside . I think he will never change I live with hope never happen . I would like for us to go our separate ways without fighting. anybody can suggest which route to take without spending a lot of money on solicitors and court any suggestions will do . thanks

Sorry you are going through this. I have been there and after 16 years no change. You can try to have an amicable divorce but you alone cannot do this. If he is not willing to be reasonable it will end up in court. Not to make you worry but just to prepare you. However don't let money put you off. I'm going to be worse off but the life you describe was my life but mine was worse and now I don't dread him coming home. My life is peaceful and that is priceless. Good luck.