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Divorce/separation

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He agrees to 100% of the house & 50%

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Newbrummie · 04/04/2015 21:56

Of his total pension which in reality is feck all as the house is in negative equity and the pension is buttons.
Is there any chance that this could be over ruled by the court ?
I'm just worried about this fairness rule ... The reality is the house would have been repossessed if it was up to him

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JiltedJohnsJulie · 05/04/2015 15:30

Have you got a consent order going through Court?

Newbrummie · 05/04/2015 15:40

I'm at the very beginning of all this, just literally filling out the paper work. That's what he's agreed to though

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JiltedJohnsJulie · 05/04/2015 18:21

Have you filed for Divorce yet? If you have, you need to fill in Form A" it costs £50. If he doesn't agree, it's £255 and you will have had to go for mediation or be exempt. There's more info here.

Newbrummie · 05/04/2015 18:29

No I'm literally at the beginning ... He does agree ... He's abroad, washed his hands completely of everything

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Justusemyname · 05/04/2015 18:31

Why does he get to dictate? What about what you Want?

Newbrummie · 05/04/2015 18:35

He agrees
I'm worried the judge might not

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JiltedJohnsJulie · 05/04/2015 18:38

If you both agree and have signed the consent order before submitting it, I think it's highly unlikely that the District Judge will disagree.

Newbrummie · 05/04/2015 18:41

Thank you I was hoping it would be the case

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BravingSpring · 05/04/2015 20:06

It's early days for me as well, but my understanding from my solicitor is that provided you are both fully aware of all the assets including equity and pensions, and that you've reached an agreement with that in mind it shouldn't be a problem.

Provided any dependent dc are suitably provided for.

Newbrummie · 05/04/2015 20:56

I'm tempted to push for all of his UK pension on the basis that I'm never likely to see a penny child support and he has one abroad I won't be allowed near. I fear that would be a step too far though

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