My violent verbally abusive husband lives with our children age 5 7 and 12. Because he totally refused to move out I go everyday to take and fetch them to and from school and I still do all the housework and pay half the shared mortgage Now it looks like he wants to move them away to 'get mum out of our life' I have a non-mol against him which he ignores so far Can he do this ? It's not gone to court yet and we both want full custody