Scared

[Purple1982]

My marriage is over and I want out! Cannot bear to even look at my husband any more. But we have a 6 weeks old baby and I am scared of leaving him. How will I cope on my own? Also, I feel sooooo guilty towards my baby. I have failed her already. I have failed to create a good home for her. I dont know what to do. I want to ask him for divorce tonight ... but I am scared.
How do I know if it's the right decision?

Is there anything specific causing you to feel this way? I'm only asking because if you have a 6 week old your hormone levels will still be all over the place and sleep deprivation pretty bad. In the absence of abuse (be it physical, emotional, financial etc) I would urge you not to make any rash decisions. Take some time to think things through as a new baby creates an adjustment period for all concerned. Good luck whatever conclusion you eventually come to .

I was going to say the same about hormones. Yore both in state of change. Your world has just turned upside down. Why do you now want to separate?