Dh went yesterday and already communicating by email re arrangements for kids

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Told him to go after running out of patience with him - he has already sent me email requesting to see kids next week & have them for sleepover at weekend they are 12. he has obviously been taking advice from someone and is wording is v carefully chosen to make it look as though i am being difficult. I have no problem with him seeing the kids but feel they need at least a week to get used to the fact that he is not going to be around as much - advise please

not had a good day today - didnt sleep well & feel emotionally drained. i think its the uncertainty too about whats going to happen. Kids seem to be ok - i now its early days - i cant actually believe that we are in this situation - i just feel like saying right enough of this - this is stupid what are we doing - we're all hurting - i do believe there is no OW - i thought we were ok - cant believe that 20 years can be over just like that

thanks for all your support -

I am not suprised you are feeling bad. It's a huge life changing event . You are right, it's early days and you have to give yourself time.

I hope you have some good RL support.

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