Can anyone please give me advice - am separated almost 2yrs. My husband was controlling jealous and aggressive. And throughout our 13 years together continuously accused me of having affairs with almost all my male coworkers and male friends. I never cheated on him in time we were together and have him every opportunity for an amicable/civil split. We tried mediation, negotiation and an attempt at an unconverted court separation. However nothing has worked and he continues to be aggressive and threatening. This is all really just background to my current problem. I am now in a relationship with a work colleague, with whom my husband had repeatedly accused me of cheating on him with - which I absolutely did not. But I know in my heart that once this becomes public knowledge it will be hard to convince anyone that this is a recent development and had nothing whatsoever to do with the breakdown of my marriage. As our court date has now been adjourned to February due to my ex s irrational behaviour , my fear is that should my new relationship come to light it will damage my integrity in court. My ex will attempt to damage my reputation in anyway possible and I am sure of this.
I need advice as to how to proceed, thanks.