H and I have been separated for a month now, (massive trust and emotional problems) each of us taking turns to stay at home with DC's, other nights I'm on an air bed on my mum's lounge floor. Youngest DD has just turned 2 and it's breaking my heart being apart from her.
This does not seem fixable, and H comes round to see the DC's on my nights at home and we inveriably end up arguing, sometimes my fault, but I'm so upset and angry. I just can't do this anymore.
I have seen the details of a local house to rent, but would need housing benefit. My name is on the joint mortgage but H pays it all as I'm currently a SAHM with two preschool DD's, did work p/t when DD2 was little but DD3 was a poorly little girl and my DM now has health issues and is not well enough to help look after them.
A lady at CAB says I should be able to get it, will contact local housing dept tomorrow, but has anybody had any personal experience of this. I need to try and sort my life out and start rebuilding it. But how do i start??
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paranoidandroidwreckmyownlife · 13/05/2012 15:35
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