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How can I make behave like we're not married anymore

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Agent31 · 28/04/2012 20:32

Sorry me again

DH and I have been separated a couple of weeks now, fairly amicable although he still worships the ground I walk on. He's moving out on 12th June which is sooooooo far away but there is nothing I can do about it. Just got to put and keep the peace.

In the meantime he's still sharing our bed, calling me darling and generally behaving as if nothing has changed, when everything has. AARRGGHH! WHen we talked about him still being in the bed he basically said that he knows nothing is going to happen between us so he may as well still come to bed and be comfortable rather than sleep on the sofa. What could I say to that??! But I'm not ok about it, it's just not what I want. We've split because I don't love him anymore, we've grown apart and I'm not attracted to him anymore. How can I make him behave more like we've split without making what is so far amicable, nasty?

OP posts:
Agent31 · 28/04/2012 20:33

Make him behave sorry

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Movingout · 29/04/2012 08:56

Why don't you sleep on the sofa?

KlickKlackknobsac · 29/04/2012 09:00

yes- I am afraid that si the only solution- or rent a holiday cottage until 12th JUne (or B&B). Surely its torture being in same bed.

WidowWadman · 29/04/2012 09:01

If he doesn't leave the bed, but you don't want to share it, you'll have to sleep on the sofa, I'm afraid. It's what I did when I broke up with my ex, he didn't get the message any other way.

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