I've been with my h for six years and married for nearly three. We've got a dd who's 1. Over the past couple of years we have had some big arguments and I have threatened to leave many times. I feel he just doesn't care about me anymore and that he's always trying to cause rows. He tells me I'm a lunatic or a nutter if I shout at him. I just don't know what to do anymore, every time before we've just patched it up and carried on but I really don't think I can do that much more. If I'm brutally honest the way I feel at the moment, the only reason I'm staying is the thought of having to share custody of dd and not being able to see her every day. Any advice would be welcome.