I've recently split with my lo's father after putting up with months of him lying, and bullying me into sex etc. I found myself so worried about him coming home one day that I plucked up the courage to leave. He's finding it very difficult to cope with. He is phones me everyday telling how he's going to change and we need too try again etc. I kept telling him that the months of bullying (into sex) and telling me I've got something wrong with me cos I dont want it basically everything he did that upset me lying,seeking attention from other girls, and having sexual conversations with other girls etc was my fault cos I wasn't having sex with him and that I'm stupid for being upset. All these things have just worn me down over the months and my feelings have changed for him. I don't love him. I resent him for having sex with me when he knew I didn't want it I resent him for not listening to how Hurt I was. I just don't love him anymore cos of all that's happened. Now I've left he wants to change and go counselling (i was suggestting this months ago but he refused) and phones me everyday begging me to come back and I'm over reacting for leaving. These phone calls ate every day. I've made it clear how I feel but still four weeks on he's still calling everyday persuading and telling me to come home. I'm upset everyday cos of these nasty hostile phone calls and get anxious when the phone rings cos the conversation always turns nasty cos i wont do what he wants I've told him ifhe's going to keep calling And being nasty then I'll change my number and we'll only be able to talk through email. Ive got it in to my head that I'm over reacting cos that's what he drummed into me. Am I ? Has anyone else gone through anything similar ? Help :(