Sorry - just venting. Following on from my 'am I doing the right thing by taking away the kids from their ex' thread - having decided that yes we are going to move, and having sent the ex as kind a letter as possible explaining our reasons, that it wasn't to stop him seeing the kids, that we'd do everything to keep him in contact with him, etc etc, I looked at my credit report this morning, for the first time in ages.
Back in 2007, I paid the ex £11,000 as a settlement - people told me I was mad to give him a penny, but he was going ON AND ON about not having half the flat, even though we'd only ever had an interest-only payment deal. So, I reasoned that (at the time) he'd paid more for the mortgage payments than he would have done renting, so I worked out the difference and paid him that, plus my half of a tax credit bill, which he said he would pay off in installments. I found out this morning that he's paid a tenner. Of a total £2329.67. FUCKER!!!!!
Can i gouge his eyes out? With a spoon? Please?