My dear MIL has just moved into a home who said they could care for her (she is 5 years into Alzheimer’s diagnosis which has progressed rapidly this year). A week in they say they will not be able to care for her if she keeps on wandering around opening fire doors. DH is going to visit ASAP and poor FIL is very upset as the whole thing has obviously been distressing anyway, but surely that’s part and parcel of looking after someone with advanced Alzheimer’s? God this is hard.
Ps this is a home we trusted as they took great care of another relative.