Hi. My mother is 87 has diabetes and middle to late stage dementia. She lives in assisted living so basically on her own. Carers should go in every 2 hours but this isn’t always possible as they are short staffed. Mom has had quite a few problems recently healthwise. My sister and I shower her and do her meals plus the washing. We have a brother that helps every so often. So I think the best thing for my mom is for her to go into full time care for her own safety. sister does not agree. Brother is on the fence. We all work and have power of attorney so it’s not always possible to go as often as I could. We know it would be expensive as mom is self funding but the money is there for her to be looked after properly. Sorry for long post but thanks for reading
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