We admitted our Mom to a care Home 2 days ago and the Nursing staff keep asking us to come and settle her. She is aggressive and verbally abusive and resistant to care. But she isn’t physically abusive.
She is wandering the halls at night, slamming doors and they keep calling my family to come and settle her. It is a special care unit and I don’t understand why they keep making us come in. Aren’t they capable of dealing with this behaviour?
She is eating but has limited vocabulary. She can’t answer questions properly, always saying no and to fuck off.
The whole reason she was admitted to a care home is because we are burnt out. She has already fallen and now some of her toenails are missing. I am fearing we made the wrong decision but we can’t care properly for her anymore.
I don’t know how to help and I’m frustrated that the nursing staff is relying on us. I thought they are professionals. She isn’t any better with us either. I’m so sad and scared for her. Please any insight will help.
Is this normal transitioning behaviour? This isn’t in the UK for reference.
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Dementia and Alzheimer's
What is Normal with the settling period of a carehome for Dementia
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Bimbop5 · 25/02/2024 20:17
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