Trying to get a handle on DM's situation, likely diagnosis, next steps etc. She went to the doctor with memory problems around 9 months ago. The GP did an MMSE (I think, based on what she and my dad described) and DM said she got a score of 25. So not awful, but GP had concerns and referred her.
This week, she finally had her memory clinic appointment where they (I think, from her description) did a MOCA test, and she got a score of 9. The doctor mentioned the possibility of AD/dementia, but said he needed to speak to colleagues and she'd hear back in about a fortnight.
I'm trying to get my head round how the score could have declined so much in 9 months. DM is very upset at having done 'badly', says she doesn't want any more tests and bitterly regrets ever going to the GP. She thinks her low result is partly due to other factors (bad insomnia, questions she would always have found difficult etc).
It's early days yet after the test, and I can see why she's feeling shocked and upset, but I'm worried that she'll withdraw from the process. From Google, I'm inferring that a score of 9 is low enough that they'll almost certainly diagnose dementia, but I would think they might need a scan or other tests to determine what type? I'm concerned she's going to refuse any more tests, on the basis that she doesn't see the point and just thinks they're going to lock her in a home. I've already tried to reassure her that nobody is going to do that, and to say that it's important to determine exactly what's causing her problems so that they can give the correct medications, support or whatever, but I'm struggling so far - she starts to come round, but then forgets the conversation and goes back to her previous position. She's depressed, highly anxious, suffering panic attacks, becoming socially withdrawn, having phyiscal dufficulties (bad arthritis) and also having some hearing problems (which she won't get tested for). And yet on other days she seems pretty ok - still reads books, goes to the theatre, goes on holiday etc. Tbh I'm surprised too that her score was quite as low as it was.
It all just feels like such a mess.