My Mother has Alzhiemer's and was diagnosed about a year and a half ago. I arrange all the care and repairs to her house etc.
I had spoken to the GP and the memory nurse about my Mother's weight as she is underweight. She is weighed each month but hasn't dramatically lost any during the last couple of months:
There doesn't seem to be any physical cause for the weight loss. I encourage her to eat a good breakfast. The carers give her a snack or lunch and there are plenty of sweet foods to eat in the house. A family member encourages her to eat an evening meal but she doesn't have much of an appetite. The carer has tried to get her to have nutrition drinks.
I've explained that an additional Carer in the evenings might not work in getting her to eat more for various reasons.
The memory nurse has still contacted social services about this saying she is concerned about my Mother. This has been done despite talk of a best interest meeting.
I'm so fed up of all this. It's basically a box ticking exercise to cover her back. I've really had enough of having to take on all this responsibility. I suffer from anxiety and insomnia and all this is making me worse.
I know I sound awful and I do want the best for my parent but at the end of the day it's been rubbish parenting and other family members don't help or make excuses not to.
I suppose I just want to vent. I sometimes think about moving away as this has all been so full on for three years.
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Dementia and Alzheimer's
Fed Up Of This
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sotiredofthisnow · 24/02/2023 06:52
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PritiPatelsMaker ·
05/03/2023 13:59
sotiredofthisnow · 04/03/2023 18:00
Thanks for your comments. It all seems overwhelming.
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