Hi guys
Its a bit tricky with MIL right now. We have always got on well apart from once when I challenged her when we had a tiny disagreement when my daughter was 3, and she ignored me for 2 days (the rest of the holiday).
We got together as a family in July and as soon as she had 2 drinks she ignored me.
My FIL has confirmed she has early onset dementia (I unfortunately have suspected this in a while as she repeats herself a lot and says a lot of things that don't make sense). They do not live near us but we zoom often, it's the luck of the draw if she acknowledges me or not on the zoom.
Today they have come to visit, she was OK to start buy after about an hour started ignoring me and demanded to go back to their hotel. My kids were upset as they were making up a dance but she was adamant they had to leave right then and there and that it was because of me.
I am 100% sure I haven't done anything but I feel gutted because A) my kids are sad and B) I have bugger all confidence at the best of times and don't understand why someone would suddenly hate me.
They are supposed to be coming for the day tomorrow and I am shitting it - there is a chance my husband and fil will play golf and leave me with someone who hates me.
what should I do? Xx