Dad trip away- what to say to Mum?

[willowtree81]

My Mum has mixed dementia - diagnosed 3 years ago. I would say she's at moderate to severe stage. Could definitely not be left alone for any period. Her speech and comprehension I would say are most affected. Though physically

Thank you @BunnyRuddington 💖

How are things progressing now @willowtree81? Did DF find the break useful?

@BunnyRuddington Thank you for asking 😍 Yes! I saw them yesterday and he seemed much brighter and more like himself. It was great that it almost seemed like a refreshing break for her too at least some of the time - I think they both need time apart!

I was also relieved to hear from my aunt that when he got back on Sunday she was really happy to see him and gave him a big hug. We thought she might be furious, so that's all brilliant.

The Social Care assessment has not taken place but instead they've been handed back to the memory clinic for an assessment of some kind? They said it was more her mental deterioration than physical needs which she needs help with (definitely true).

Unfortunately they said it would happen this week and it hasn't, but fingers crossed he'll get a call soon.