My mum is in a nursing home & while I’d like to think that the residents are well cared for I do worry
My mum has dementia but she’s had bruises on her arms which are caused by her meds this was clarified by a Dr yesterday
However there are a couple of carers that she really dislikes , one in particular that I can’t take to either .. My mum often says that if she doesn’t cooperate in the morning she sometimes gets a slap I don’t know if it’s the dementia talking but my mum has visitors every day although we can’t be there 24/7 she does get agitated I’ve asked. The staff to leave her if she’s not in a good mood and not to insist on getting washed or changed this often goes on deaf ears
I’m thinking about placing a camera in my mums room some might say that I should have trust in the home but tbh I’d feel the sand about any nursing home my mums needs are too complex for her to go home
I know that a couple of other residents have cameras in their rooms
Elderly confused people are very vulnerable and sometimes we need to listen to them
I once walked into my mums room and a carer was pinning my mum down to the bed to change her I went ballistic hardly surprising that she was agitate