My m signs of dementia rapidly increased with sudden death of her son. Over 2 years we cared for her in her own home with daily visits, shopping etc. after recent uti she was in hospital for 3 weeks where her decline was alarming and she went from mobile confused lady to totally immobile and incontinent. Hospital said she may never walk again. She came home to my house 6 weeks ago as we did not want ch due awful experience with another family member. She sleeps now in bed in our small lounge. Consultant/gp says she cannot be alone at all now ever,
We as a family are in dire trouble now, i cannot afford to stop work, but day cover costing more than i earn. I feel trapped. She is sometimes aggressive and cannot talk much sense at all. She is however mobile again. And continent mostly so that is better. She can go for walks accompanied.
Her house is empty a mile away and now i know i have to take some hard decisions, i have poa but feel very alone and afraid