My dad has mixed vascular dementia and alzheimers. I am paid to help him and my mum for 16 hours a week through direct payments. In reality i help out much more.
Im struggling hugely....
On top of helping out with dad (and mum), im a single parent and my fiance (who i dont yet live with) has stage 4 cancer.
I am at my wits end with everything and today i snapped at my dad when he asked the same bloody question for the thousandtg time in 10 mins.
He didnt deserve it and i know he can't help it... I just feel ao flipping guilty for my reaction.
Im just off loading here i guess as rl support is zero.
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Ludoole · 09/10/2014 02:06
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